How they should do, how you teach me to fight

 Contact me and my boyfriend 6 years.
03 04 years, he began to live in my house. His family know and agree.
05 years, we have between a third party. But in the end he Or return to me. After we have been very happy, happy.
perhaps a long time, tired. Last December, I had thought he was wrong. often do not come back. I found him and another one phone cards, I think he should have another woman. I have asked him his .12 month 2, send a message to me: . the hard money first. My ultimate goal is to have their own place, have their own thought of the day. Now I do not want to give up the opportunity, I'll be back when not busy with you. And do not put I do not and women want to come back together. I do not mind so much, do not allow ourselves. You only remember well, you are the person I will marry. wrong time, there will be no second time. it will not allow their own make the same mistake.
us apart for some time I asked him why he separated, he told me not to push him, let him be quiet. But we have to keep in touch, QQ, a message yesterday he said to me -------- : a personal space! so that we can have a future! I would like us to come to the end! this hope many people will agree! own at home! not find a job! so as not to be too empty! spirit have sustenance! br> I want to know what he meant in the end? psychology is how to think?
I really cherish this love, I want to lose him. as long as a glimmer of hope, I will not give up I'm going to fight.
But I do not know how they should do, how to fight? you teach me?
Hello! do not know how to get along on weekdays, he occupied the position in your mind how important, but look at your description, you're taking him, afraid to lose him, perhaps resulting in the daily live in the bundle too much for him, longed to always keep at his side, and even loss of self do not care.
but his request was not No reason, then close the two people need a separate space. Although a partner in a sense means that two people become a whole, but still need to remember that you are still independent. If for tried to grab the while the other requirement to live each other a lot, a lot of constraints; or think the other is her boyfriend should bear all the responsibility on their own, leaving themselves indefinitely to rely on him, only make love to each other more and more heavy, the other side want to escape.
suggest you look back you get along with the previous model, consider that he is not, as the other side says, too many constraints on him. In fact, aside their worry about the outcome of the psychological, take love to enjoy the present, let each other are much more relaxed and happy.